My first step out of Newcomers

[Can it work]

Thanks for dropping in on my sitch again Sandi. I always value your advice and opinion. Not only on my own thread but also when I read your contributions to others.

Well, valentine's night came and went without me managing to do anything stupid. Also, in my defence, it wasn't a one on one situation. It was a two on one. There were two girls I went out with. Mind you, in the end one of my male friends ended up coming too. That doesn't mean it was a double date. I think romance was the furthest things from all our minds. The whole idea was for me to enjoy the night. If I didn't do something, I would've been miserable thinking about what I'd lost. In the end I had a great night so there was no harm done.

You asked if how I'd feel if my W went out for a romantic meal with a male friend. Honestly, I'd be gutted. I'd be horribly jealous and unbelievably upset about it. That's me though. If she felt the same when I did something like that, she would never have left me. I do agree with you that I'm a bit vulnerable to women right now. I just have to make sure that I keep my resolve and remain strong.

I look forward to further advice Sandi. It's good to have you back.

Kev