So the wife is out looking for apartments.I told her the other night that I am not cooking dinner for her anymore.I also told her to set up meeting to get sep. done this week so she could get out.That's what she wants then that's what she gets.I am getting tired of the whole thing.Can't stop someone from doing what they want.Don't get me wrong,the marriage is important to me but so is my sanity.What's that saying "if you love someone set them free".I recall another one "the grass isn't always greener."Guess I'll see what happens.