The topic that keeps coming up is the possibility of an EA/PA. She swears that's not true. She says she would never to that to our kids. She has said the same thing to my SIL whom she confides in. My SIL doesn't want to get in the middle of it, but she lets me know how I'm doing after she's talked to my W.I've asked one of the woman she goes to visit, she says the same thing. I don't think I'm being naive when I think she's not having an A as she has always been very self-conscious about her body going back to incidents as a young teenager. She still thinks she's a slut and carries that shame and guilt with her to this day. Maybe since she has lost weight she has more self-confidence in her self and she might be waiting to start something after/if we do D, but I truly believe she's not at that point yet. I think maybe she thinks she needs to be with someone like a therapist who can relate to her 24/7.
