Another Wife Rising From The Bomb's Ashes

[JDOllie]

Yay for you!

I don't answer ANY calls. I let them go to voice mail - if it's an emergency, she can text and I'll see it.

Pearl already delivered the wrist-slap, so I'll just smile.

[Tawnya]

Pearl and JD..yep I should have let it go..but what happened was, I let it go the first time and then he called AGAIN..sigh..I was like "dude..I'm at work..why are you calling me?"..but next time I will def just let it go to voice mail..sigh!

Besides..there MUST be some rule in DA Club that allows one "newbie mistake" right? LOL

Tawnya

[Silver Fox]

If you do answer a call from hub again you can just say "I'm sorry, who did you say you are?" That shouldn't lose you any DA points.

You are brave Tawyna for facing that terrible history. And as the others have said, it's all part of the healing process.

I hope you have a fabulous weekend!

[VeronicaV]

Tawnya,

I am so sorry that your H ever did that to you. I remain amazed and impressed by your strength and your courage. You are doing a wonderful job of taking good care of yourself. Keep working on you. That's all any of us can ever do.

Sorry to have been away again. That seems to be my m.o. lately - I seem to need a hiatus every few days to process.

Please find me in the alt. if you need to talk.

Lots of hugs.
V.

[pearlharbr]

Of course everyone is allowed to make mistakes!

We just want you to avoid some of the ones we've already made.

As you can tell, for JD and me going dark has been great!

[Tawnya]

{{{Silver}}} That would be funny to do..and you made me laugh out loud with that one "and you are?" LOL!?

{{{Pearl}}} I appreciate you looking out for me on that one and you are right..next time, to voice mail with him

{{{V}}} thank you my valentine!! I am always amazed at your strength and ability to look inward and know what takes people so long to realize sometimes, that you really have to heal within first and be willing to look at yourself to really find yourself! (wow philosophical for almost 1 a.m...I think sometimes I should be a night owl

Tawnya

[kassie]

{{{T}}}

How are you today?

[Tawnya]

{{Kassie}} Doing pretty well today..was up late last night and had trouble staying asleep for some ridiculous reason..LOL..oh well

Well had another "first" today. Had to see hub for the "first" time since he left, he brought my son back today. It was strange him being here, but I was totally fine with it. We talked about what they did, he made a point of telling me all that they did, told me I could come check out the apartment to "inspect" if I wanted to since my son was staying there. It was just "nothing convo" really and it felt like I was talking to an acquaintance in a weird way..Pearl said, when I was telling her about it, that I sounded like I wanted to say "whatever"..LOLOL..and that's about the size of it!

Anyway..so that is out of the way..so hopefully we can continue at a level of niceness and "friendly" since we have to talk about our son and daughter...but I'm really ok about that being all that we have (and that's an interesting revelation to admit!)

Tawnya

[Silver Fox]

Hi Tawyna,

Thanks for keeping up with me. I am indeed stronger. And you are too.

Pearl said, when I was telling her about it, that I sounded like I wanted to say "whatever"..LOLOL..and that's about the size of it!

Like the MLC'ers, the LBS goes through stages too and one of them is definitley the "WHATEVER" stage.

[silvagod]

Oooo I so LOVE the whatever stage.