Been awhile. Busy at work and other things. I lost my 15 lbs and feel and look great.
Sent former W an email and told her that her planning things on my time was a non-starter. I worded it nice but firm. This is a boundary that I not let things come between my kids and me.
She backed down. In fact, for the first time she offered to give up her time if she needed to. I was shocked at her response. Like I discussed before, this was a test. Push my buttons and see what happens. Sticking to my terms and boundaries worked and made "passing" the test possible. She knows when she crosses the line.
I discussed baseball with my son and we decided he should play. I still hate it takes so much time but the season is not too long. I am still on the fence about Sunday School. I am not yet ready to find a new church but when I do the kids will go with me.
All for now. This thread is about to lock. Doubt I will start another. There are only two or three folks left that I still follow here - everyone else is gone. I don't have the strength to read newcomers anymore - the memories are too strong and the newcomers sound just like I did three years ago.
Been three years this month since the bomb. Also my one year anniversay as a single guy. Three years without sex (is that a record?).
The next three years will be better. And the next three after that.
They will be b/c I will live in a way that will make me happy. I am free to choose my world and I have the power to transform it.
