Hi Moonlocks,

You're in good company! We have very similar situations.

Making love plays a huge role in increasing the emotional connection between partners. If he is LD, he just can't see it.

Testosterone may help him, according to others who have been in similar situations. I'm hoping my husband decides to check it out.

I can't write much right now, but will spend more time as soon as I can.

Passionate Marriage by Schnarch might help!

Lucky