The rollercoaster is amazing and so damaging to the BS. I feel the damage in alot of other areas of my life now that I have gone through this for almost 3 years. I am not a trusting person like I was. I am not nearly as settled and happy as I used to be.
Time will tell what you need to do. Have you two been to MC together? Just a thought.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!