Passive Agressive MLC Husband

[PositivelyMommy]

You got a lot of blame, are you going to be able to give that up?

Because if you cannot, even someone who repents, and comes back fully isn't going to want to have to live with burden for the rest of their married life.

Thanks for this one as well. I think about this question ALL the time. But before I can truly address it, I need to ask myself how exactly I contributed to the breakdown of my M. When I can answer that then I can let go of the blame. If I can own up to my part and make sense of things, then I can have more understanding of the situation and how it all came tumbling down. If I can understand then I can finally let go of the blame. That is why 1) I need to find out exactly what was bothering my H, stuff that I was doing wrong 2) Find out why I was doing those behaviors and 3) Address and make changes in myself for ME 4) Let go of the blame.

And until my passive agressive H can come out and speak fully on his feelings and what was bothering him, I can't even start on number one.

I am ready to go to work on myself, I just need some help with direction and only my H can help me with that as only he can tell me what he saw as the vital flaws in our M.