It's Complicated! Part 4

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, Sweetie!!

OK, I'm thinking you may be dealing with some of the same crap I think I've been dealing with.......and that's hormones!!! [Or as my Aunt Shirley used to say..."My Hors are Moanin'!"].

I was sooooo down the first two weeks of this month and then the past week....FLIP....and I'm doing just fine! And this was the week of Valentines day and my anniversary! You'd think it would have been the other way around! I have talked to my Dr and he thinks hormones are most definitely an issue.

And I've had some disturbances with sleeping too!

I know I don't need to remind you how far you've come in your sitch. You are one of the most patient, generous, warm, giving woman I have ever "met"!! And I bet this cycling your H is doing now is barely a blip on the radar screen compared to what he's probably done in the past. It certainly doesn't deserve even a fraction of your pain!

Anyway, my point is just to suggest that some of these fears you are having may just be your brain messin' with you (perhaps a little like your H's brain still stirs him around!). And as I know you have comforted him many times and told him it was OK, you may need to learn to give some of that understanding to yourself! Do ya' know what I mean? I don't think I am explaining this very well......

I really do think you are "in the home stretch" with your H, and you are going to get there!! But you need to remember to save for yourself some of that compassion and patience which you give your H so un-reservedly.

You are an amazing woman, Glam!!! Don't ever forget that!!

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