Quoting talitsa: Sage, isn't the act of not doing something still an action that takes energy? Geez, that sounds very Zenlike, doesn't it? (hahahaha)
it sure as heck takes energy for me!!!
When the bomb first dropped, I was paralyzed. I didn't DO anything...or make any overtures or decisions because I just couldn't figure out what the right thing was to do. then, I found DB'ing and realized that for me, a 180 is not doing something...but it can still be hard for me not to talk, do, create, buy, whatever...some action!
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.