I'm curious how your wife is doing in her job-hunting. Seems to me she's substituting man-hunting. Is the only job she's ever had "wife"? If you want the marriage, you don't need to back out so quickly. It's not so easy to find a new husband to support a family of 5. Of course, then you need to be prepared for her to come back because she has no other option financially. She really should get a resume together and look for a job.
