I know what to do. Just need the support.

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so W text me around 5:00 saying " will be late " I say ok and also included the score of the hockey game. Which I guess I am going to stop doing. I always did that before when she was going to miss part or all of a game and I always got a response. Now I don't get a reponse everytime.

W arrives just after 9:00 and I am upstairs laying in bed watching tv. Before I would have been down stairs waiting for her.

When she came in I could hear her say where is everybody.

I was expecting her to come up and change and go directly back down stairs. But W proceded to tell me how bad of a day she had. So I validated, gave her my undivided attention and she told about the good things that happened. She almost seemed like the old W I used to know. It was a good 5 minutes.

I thought she was going to be late because she had to go see her sister in the hospital. Turns out she had to drive awhile to get her phone replaced. The only thing I don't like is that she took the girl from work that has been supporting my W in her decision to D me. She supports my W and tells her us being " just friends " and living together CAN work because she is doing the same thing with her ex.
They grabbed something to eat and had a drink on their way home.