Thanks trapt I know no one is bashing me, everyone is giving spot one advice, I just had a hard time starting to listen. My xh is apparently crazy about "2" women, but one of them doesnt do anything but flirt and lead him on. The other one lives with him. How long does these childish relationships last? Does anyone know? Does the WAS usually fall hard when they meet ow? My xh said he would never live with anyone and anyone would never live with him. When I asked him about this ow staying with him every night. He said, "she just spends the nights, she doesnt live here" HELLO, isnt that the same thing? (by the way I had asked him this earlier, not lately) I try so hard not to think about them, and sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesnt. I am trying to GAL the best way I know how. How do you get the other ow and xh off your min? My xh was dating around and had been with 3 or 4 different women until this girl, now she lives with him. So I assume he really is starting to care for her. He told me awhile back, that when you spend enough time with someone, they grow on you.
