You are absoultely correct about not wanting to be the only bad guy. My W exposed A I lost alot of friends in the processs. I guess i wanted her to feel in that pain as well and have have every one talk about her.
Yes i did see alot of positive changes in her. For one she started to GAL and make new friends along the way. I too would love to do that.
Thanks Snow for the great advice. Im very new at this and dont really now what to say half the time but journelling about my days i can do cause I do everyday anyways. Also was a little shy about going to read other threads and give advice considering what I have done but maybe I can help.
