I haven't posted in a few days but have been keeping up with reading other people's sitch's.
There hasn't been any change to my sitch but have found out a few new things in the last few days.
H and I got the taxes done (will use some of the money to finalize the D). Thought the money would be here by next Friday.
I took D7 to him for dropoff this afternoon and he was running late so I was alone in his house while on the phone with him for about 30 minutes.
I had checked the mail and found a letter from the CPA that did the taxes. They always send one letting us know everything was accepted blah blah blah. Figured that's what it was. Nope. It was a letter stating the since we have a small balance due to IRS that we have been paying on they will take their money first (which we knew would happen) and then SEND the rest in the mail. No direct deposit.
That has its good and its bad. The good is that it delays our D for at least another 4 weeks. Bad is that if I talk to OW's H before then I may have to worry about H taking the money. Although he would have to forge my name to do it and I don't think he would but he would at least stall me getting it by telling me it hasn't arrived yet.
I also confirmed almost a week ago that is H working for OW. I don't know how often but I do know it is happening. H denies it. But I KNOW he is. I can't tell him how I know so I just let him deny it. So now they have that bond too.
Found out today while in his house that he has created a new e-mail account. Not sure what he is hiding there. He has mastered sneakyness. Or at least he thinks he has.
I feel like this mess is never going to end. Something keeps delaying the D (which is not a bad thing) and something keeps delaying OW's H finding out. There are NO signs of this A breaking up. If anything it is getting stronger.
