STBX continues to be super-overcontrolling of the kids, making D16 cry at every turn. Nice job, Joan Crawford!
I know from experience that the hardest thing is to watch your STBX effect the kids with her antics. Do what you want to me, I'm a big boy but don't mess with the kids! That was always my feeling and sometimes it is just so hard not to go in there like a bull in a china shop. A friend of mine told me that I need to recognize that STBX is responsible for building her own R's with the kids and if she wants to have a sh!tty R then that is her choice, I can't fix it. That's tough to swallow and it's even harder trying to figure out where the line is, the one where you say enough is enough and step in and when you stay the hell out. Isn't this fun, FLTC!
