I know that if Sandi's reading this she'll tell me that I shouldn't be hanging around with women at all if I want to fix my M. I'm not using them for female companionship or anything though. I'm just friends with them the way I'd be friends with one of the guys. If more of my male friends want to come out then they'd be more than welcome. I really don't want my W to believe that I've moved on but I don't want to stop seeing my friends just because they happen to be women. Totally confused about this one. Somebody help!!!
Hi there. You're right....I was reading and no I don't think you should be having one on one female friend time on Valentine's Day. For a couple of reasons, okay? First of all, everyone links V-day with romance, right? They don't think about friendships......even if they try to cover it up with that mask. Secondly, you are more vulnerable to women at this point than you realize. I know you don't want anyone but your wife, but it happens all the time. Lonely guy with lonely woman....and wham....they are in a worse mess than before. I realize people in other countries have different customs and perhaps you are capable of having female friends that are just like men......but I still think when under certain conditions.....it just is not a wise thing to do. Would you be okay with your wife going out to dinner in a romantic setting with a male "friend"? Honestly?
I know you will get this post after V-day, but I'm just now catching up on your stitch. Sorry that I got distracted in some others, but I tend to do that. It doesn't mean I no longer care about yours, I just get distracted.
So, I will go and finish reading now.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
