Ok, so it appears the majority believe I should not meet with him. Now, need to decide whether to tell him or not.

Thank you Silvagod. I'm with you - if I didn't laugh at his note I'd cry - and I've done enough of that.
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I read that note that your H left and my first reaction was to actually lol, I really did. I know it's not a funny sitch, but to write a note like that and expect you to view it with sympathy is SO funny. I always find it amusing when people precede a sentence with "I'm not doing / asking for xxxx but" What that almost always means is that without a shadow of doubt xxxx is EXACTLY what they are doing / asking for.

I can't tell you how manys times he's made comments like this, along with his other favorites - "I know I have no right to ask, but......." And "I hope you'll find it in your heart to......." And my all time favorite - "If you could just put aside your emotions and cooperate with me....."

Thanks again for posting. I look forward to more of your thoughts.
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Love this too!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10