Shine like the star you are!

[sage]

On the issue of FFs and MFs:
I used to like that Wolfie had female friends. I thought it showed that he honestly liked women and didn't just see them as objects.

Now I know that he has a REAL problem with boundaries concerning any FFs.

Does Wolfie agree that he has issues with boundaries?

Have you guys discussed how to handle it in the future?

I don't have the answers to any of this for myself and my m. It's a tremendous source of anxiety for me right now...really the thing that makes my heart pound and my head get light....

what I'm trying to impact is actually the only thing that I CAN...my reaction...my anxiety...my thought-process...my 180s, etc. In my m, dropping the rope seems to work amazingly well for so many things...no longer trying to edit or control what h is doing. Well, that plus appreciating the things that he IS doing. I have to believe that that this is a good model for the future, too.

Sage