Wow Pearl,

It took me awhile to catch up since last night. The anger is good. I'm in it now too. I know it's not healthy to stay angry for too long but it's a necessary stage and it gives back control.

You did well in decoding BF's words too and I would absolutely not be available to him anytime soon.

Stay strong girl and thanks also for your advice on my thread.

Have a fabulous weekend!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10