My wife does the whole "not wearing a ring" thing too. She doesn't say anything about it, she just waits for me to ask her. I have in the past, but not this time. She still has her rings, she just doesn't wear them. I used to not wear mine when she stopped wearing hers. But I think that just helps to reiterate her decision. So I have not taken mine off. I figure I am still married and until that is completely dissolved I don't need to. I know how she feels. I don't need to feel the same way.
I don't know your husband, but it almost sounds like he took the ring off for dramatic purposes. He wanted you to notice so that he could tell you that it doesn't feel like a marriage. While stuff like that can get to you, the one positive thing about it is that he is at least trying to communicate. It may not be the best way to do it, but at least he's putting in an effort.
The last couple days have been crazy, but crazy outside of the marriage, so I really don't have much to report. I haven't seen that much of her, but she's been pleasant a majority of the time that I have.
I don't want to rock the boat too much, but I think tonight I am going to tell her that I am going to take her up on the offer of postponing the divorce. I've decided that I am going to stay here and try to DB as best I can, and revist my thoughts on a separation next month. I figure as long as things are going okay, I might do more harm than good leaving her alone with her thoughts. Especially with the last couple of strange events and accusations. I don't want her building something up in her head for days before cutting loose. It might be better if I can intervene immediately.
