Prior to November it was our exp, but I did buy it for her back in 2003 and she drove it primarily. In November she wanted to take it with her to Germany and since I was still in my own fantasy that this was going to be over in 3 months, I agreed. She called around to a bunch of shippers and found that she had to have a clear title if she wanted to ship it, so I signed the title over to her so she could take it. It turned out to be more expensive than she realized, so she ended up leaving it here (which was even more delightful to me since without transportation, I thought, she would even be home sooner.
KK: Thanks for the links. I really need to start doing my homework about my options here. I'm fighting like hell to avoid a divorce, but maybe a legal separation would work. I am still afraid to slam the door shut on her, especially after only three months!
I'm going to give her these next 8 days to really see if I can make any positive inroads with her using my best DB tactics. I'll take stock and decide what to do when she leaves. My MIL thinks that a week at home just might get her back to us.
One thing is for sure, I won't be helping her or enabling her fantasy life any longer! If I have any legal recourse to having her sell the exp, I will find that out, too.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
