Yes, T2. You are correct. The girl is young and insecure. My dad found her DL in the truck and turns out she's only 21. The rest I've found about her tells me that she's everything my H detests. lol

I'm just waiting for the fireworks. She's also definitly one of those girls that will throw a brick through his windshield when he leaves.

My friend and I were talking this morning and she said this...

"He wants to party like a single person but he wants the comfort of having a relationship and he can't do both."

She's right. He's either a family man or he's not. Now I know that he can go out with his buddies once in a while..its not like we have kids but he could be more responsible about it.

I don't really know what to make out of it. I'm not going to be rude or vindictive. I'm not even going to say anything about her. Right now I'm just trying to plod along and concentrate on the changes I need to make.

I just hope she hurries the imploding along.