When I stopped being Mr.Nice Guy and started loving & respecting myself, stopped doing things for her and stopped rationalizing her behavior I felt much better about myself.
Robx,
How did this method end up working for you?
Together since Feb. 2003 Maried since July 2007 Bomb occured early Dec. 2008 She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009 (deciding on if to take it or not)
