My H is trying everything he can to get to me. In the beginning I felt obligated to answer calls, listen when he wanted a few minutes or go out when asked. But it all ended the same way - arguing about the same old stuff. I gradually stopped agreeing to see him, I occasionally answer a call, usually let it go to message, but now he isn't leaving messages and my curiosity is in tact. I am not saying I don't want to hear from him - I just want to enjoy our R and not argue. Been dim/dark five weeks.
