Well my wife is 100%/100 hundred miles an hour trying to hook up with other men. An email (series) confirmed it. This isn't just an OM. She is hellbent on hooking up with another guy. She just ended and EA. I don't even know this woman anymore!
We agreed that this sep was to work on ourselves... It's exactly what Puppy said: I'm out of the way and she can go at it like a crazy woman...
Can DBing really work on someone that is seemingly losing her mind?
She is destroying what I feel for her..
I actually typed up an email that reads:
Anay,
I told you that I was serious about the purpose of this separation. I meant it when I said keeping 3rd parties out of it until you and I figured this out between us. Apparently you will not do this.
I do not want a divorce. This is not what I want. However, you seem intent on seeing what is out there for yourself. I won't stand in the way of your happiness. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Jeff
A big part of me just wants to get away from this. It's insane! She is stepping across every boundary I have. Before I sent this I wanted to run it by you all instead of reacting. I haven't sent it....
I am beyond on this one.
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
