Lemon - I sometimes wish someone would just tell me, but I'm a big boy!
Robx - I'm waffling. At first, I wanted to call her and tell her that I already have 20+ examples of her saying derogatory things, not bathing kids, etc - HORRIBLE for her in court. But then sometimes, I remember that whatever parent drags down another parent gets backfired on. I also have been documenting the days her BFF is over, and it's averaging 3-4 days ALL day and staying the night too. Just shows me that W can't do it.
Pearl - yeah, part of me thinks that she is losing her mind, part of me thinks maybe God is allowing her to hit rock bottom.
What made me feel good was that the kids walked in, and the FIRST thing they said was that about Mammaw - that makes me feel good that they want me to know. We just passed it over, told them Mammaw loved them, and they haven't said anything. I really don't even want to say anything - what she's doing is so unbelievable. I remember after Christmas, D8 said something about us arguing, and S6 said, "No, MOMMY argues with Daddy." Six years old - he knows what's going on!
You know, there was a time where she wouldn't allow them to talk badly about ANYONE; I just see her sinking deeper and deeper into this stupidity.
My stance at the moment is just to stand back, and let her implode. If I thought the kids were believing, or starting acting against me, it would be different, but it seems to be having the opposite effect.
