I know it is all about the the cake eating for stbx.

Sometimes I cannot BELEIVE I fell for this guy. Uugghh.

I don't know how to approach the subject of the 2 weeks in Hawaii. He always accuses me of trying to keep my S from seeing his family. Now I would love it if my S is never exposed to that side of the family, but I would not intentionally keep them from seeing S. As soon as stbx and I seperated, his family cut me off-which is just fine to me. But I have never tried to keep them from my S. He always plays the "I have him for the summer and I will do what I want" attitude. I am not sure if I can even put it in the custody agreement that he cannot take S to Hawaii-any advice out there?


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1701013&page=0&fpart=1

Me-33
D-10
S-11 months
T-8/M-7
Bomb 4/05
Sep 8/08
Moving to the big D...