I was definitely in shock at first. I was just numb. Not much crying at all which is odd for me, I'm a total crier at just about anything. My friends were all concerned about the lack of emotion but I guess that's just how I was processing. \:\)

And you're right, you just can't live in an emotional puddle all the time. Plus, my thoughts were that wallowing wasn't going to do me any good (total 180 for me, I'm a huge wallower!) so I might as well just get on with things.

You're GAL activities for Sat and Sun sound great. I would just caution you about spending too much time with H right now. Personally, I would concentrate more on doing things without H. I did go bowling once with xBF and other friends while we were still living together but it was a little strained. Hopefully someone else with more experience hanging out with their S (Tawnya?) can chime in here.

Is there a hobby you've always wanted to try? A class on something you've always wanted to learn about? Do things for lemonsnap!

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