Renee` please dont take anyone to show off to your xh, take a friend or family member for your support. Dont stoop to his level...nothing will be gained. Showing him youve moved on ( when you really havent) will NOT bring him home.

This childwhore on his arm will be easily recognized and not for good. In fact it will more than likely bring him some unwanted attention.....oh let him be the star of his own nitemare of his own doing! he will deserve it all. You will be elegant and dignified on the other hand.

have you seen a dr about depression meds or anxiety meds????? Please do soon. The only way i survived a court appearence about a D was zanax. you sound so wrought some meds would help stabilize your wheeling emotions.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest