Hi NW,
I think it's a wise idea to start protecting yourself legally - and to get things straight and clear in terms of your separation and your son.

I know that feeling of seeing your W as a stranger and having pity for her - it's tough..but that's sometimes all that's there for us to offer.

You seem to be in a very good place in your mind and in your heart. How wonderful to have another family visit so soon - sounds fantastic.

No wasted energy.
-Carlos.


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S3,S13

"We consent to live like sheep." W.H. Auden

On my own
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