Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

Her last paycheck was deposited into our joint account, I pretty much have all her money which is why we still share accounts. There is no animosity between us and we have always trusted each other financially. Her March paychecks will go into her own account to pay her own bills for now on.

This is a 180 for me, taking control and moving on with the separation/divorce myself instead of letting her lead. She is a coward and wont do anything until pushed. I did this because it had to happen and I need it for myself.

It's over. While my heart keeps fighting me I am motoring through to do what needs to be done regardless of how I feel. She made the choice and now must deal with it. I have to man-up and take back my life.

I emailed because I wanted to word it so she understands that I know she is no longer at her mom's. Also it's been 2 hours so far and no response, that's odd but doesn't mean anything.