Glad you're having a better day. And super happy to hear about your trip! Travelling is something I love to do and have been taking advantage of since all this happened. I'm off to Portland the first weekend of March and also need to book a weekend in Minneapolis today. Wow, where did the time go?
This is why we get along so well...my favorite trip was to Australia and I took French in school because I really wanted to go to Paris! (Of course by the time I went to Paris it wasn't as magical as I had anticipated, but will chalk that up to xBF! ) Haven't been to Ireland yet but it's on the list. Have been to Scotland and adored it. It's my second favorite place.
No big 2x4s for the text, but maybe a little slap on the wrist for answering H's call. Depends on how far you're taking NC. But I would suggest not answering at all and then responding later if you determine it's a necessary convo (which this was). When you do talk, be sure to keep to the point and end it first.
I'm so happy you felt you could tell someone there. The butterfly is starting to emerge...
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g