Rob, I was just about to write the same thing that Kerry wrote...it seems like she's very determined to get you into a role she has for you - and that's just not yours to play.
The email aside, you sound great - and I'm so happy for you that your mother is there to give you a hand - and to help you feel energized. I find that when my S11 is home with me I get that same kind of boost - it's very special.
As you know, your XW has a lot of unresolved issues - and so it just makes sense that she would throw some of those on to you - it's much easier than having to face them herself, after all...and she's given you no indication that she's interested in that kind of intense self-reflection.
One thing that really struck me when reading the email from your XW was the tone - it's such a familiar tone to me - one that relies on an unnecessary level of aggressiveness in order to hide a lot of doubt and confusion.
Glad you're getting settled...and by now you should be well into your weekend!
