I looked again today and saw more charges in the OM area. Looks like she has moved in with him which doesn't surprise me. I did email my old (and her current) IC that I know about it and while hurt, I know she has to live her life.
I guess I may have been wrong about her R with him, maybe they are doing well after all. Oh well, it's not my problem and I need to stop thinking about it. I wish I could just move on with someone else like she did.
More likely is that they are on-again/off-again/on-again, and have "broken up" and/or "decided to cool it" several times over already.
Trying to take the temperature of the illicit relationship is a fruitless exercise, and like trying to eat Jell-O with chopsticks on a moving train.
