Seriously Rob, shes insane (no offence, seeing as you M the woman).
I cannot imagine for one nanosecond that I would fire off an email like that to my ex, had we had a child together arrogantly stating that D doesnt have to be a negative thing. No.. but wheres the humility? Wheres the self-swareness? wheres the acknowledgement that this WILL be hard on Grace, possibly is now and it needs careful management? 2 parents pulling together, some sensitivity.. god seriously, she needs HELP. I'm talking intensive therapy.... "it can be positive if you choose to see it and present it that way"... WTF !!????? Yes, for her. Yes for you, if it were mutual, but then yes, no matter how painful, it has released you to be with someone who truly loves you. But I dont know how she can just state that, its never easy on kids when their parents split up and I dont see her behaving in ways that are going to negate some of those difficulties. If anything, she has acted in ways that could only amplify them.
Seriously, I feel for you so much getting such nasty, vitriolic contact from her since the day this started. Its nothing but damaging and vile, SHES the one thats negative, she is consumed with anger and bitterness toward you and has no forgiveness in her heart.
SORRY FOR RANTING! but I just want to shake your W. Look after yourself Rob, are you having IC still? How does the therapist think you could resond? Maybe set up a session if you havent been going, this is getting out of hand IMHO and you need to get some peace between the two of you, for the sake of Grace.
Theres an email answer.. "W, I wish you peace in your heart and between us, for the sake of Grace"
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
