i think it's all part of what is called 'universal law', in other words, the constants that are in the universe. god says the "like begets like" - those of us with similar situations are drawn to each other - so that in essense, if your situation turned out a certain way because you did "a b and c" then if i do "a b and c" then mine should basically turn out the same way.
what is interesting is that i find that to be true in regards to sage's sitch. very similar situations, and it's so funny that she NAILED it in her first couple of posts to me about needed to "reconnect" with hubby with the fun times, that would be the drawing thing. and yes my dear, that certainly has worked
