I don't consider it a hijack LG, it's on topic, and seeing my thread stagnate is way more depressing. ;\)

Thank you, both of you, for responding. Imma think on this a little and post my thoughts back later.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A