Quoting shinybear:


There are many others on here who have different issues and I find myself drawn more to those who share my own.


I'm drawn to those with similar issues and also tend to be drawn to DB'ers who are here after they have had an affair and want to regain trust. what's that called? Projection? Transference? It's one of those psych terms, right?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.