I was hoping I would be with at my friend's place for 4 to 8 weeks and something would happen
Well...that hope right there...is going to hurt you. 4-8 weeks seems like along time, but sorry to say it isn't. Sorry to say it seems like you are hoping for a magic fix, and those don't exist.
Advice, yeah don't say [censored] to your firends about him and you. Don't look for sympathy from them, it makes it harder for your H to come back if everyone knows the crappy things he did. In the end it is hard enough for him to get over guilt in dealing with you, you add all his friends and family to the mix, and you just helped him make up his mind NOT to come back to you.
Advice, find a woman around here that you can relate with, because frankly...you don't want me giving you advice, I don't do well with women. Mars Venus...
This is going to suck.
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EA ends 1-31-09
Don't bet on it. Protect your heart against that not being true.
Last bit of advice, if you cannot forgive him when this is over, quit now.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
