She did lose about 70 lbs. I never complained about her weight. I told her it would be good to lose it for her health because I wanted her around for a long time. I bought her a guitar for a wedding present 20 years ago and she finally started taking lessons about a year ago. She says her divorced friends were the victims of abusive spouses. That is not the case with us. I have noticed changes in her and I told her I was happy that she lost weight and took up the guitar, But I never took it as a precursor to separation.
