I think she is going to continue making those kinds of assumptions until she knows you aren't going to pressure her. She doesn't know that yet. It's going to take more time and consistency in your actions. Lucky is right, continue being consistent and transparent.
And keeping count of the days is NOT helping you. You can keep telling yourself that it doesn't bother you that much but as long as you're keeping track of the days it shows you ARE still focused on getting as much as you think you deserve.
Not to say you aren't right, but it will come through to your W and she instinctively knows that you're still keeping track and that adds to the sense of pressure. Does that make sense?
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
