Pearl,
Especially if you're not ready/willing to discuss the letter he sent you, DON'T be there.

The likelihood of him bringing it up is VERY high, and you don't need that right now!

Be gone, doing somthing FUN!!!!!!!! \:\)

lemonsnap

Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09