thanks Sandi for your most helpful advice and suggestions.
I've fwd #38 to OM and confronted him about boundaries. I'm working on myself and spending time with my kids and taking each of them on special dates now and they really love it and are appreciative too.
I'm just wondering if I should cut off all relationships with our fellowship group becos that is what she is going to do but it is the only group we have now and they will be suspicious and the OM is still in the group.
