As for your H, he needs to put you first. Yes OW has responsibilites with D for college. So you tell H in Plan b, OW has to go. He can give her a pink slip and severance pay. It will be much cheaper than you Divorcing him. Right. As long as she is seeing him everyday, she is still waiting for him. She is available to him, she shows up at his house. H needs to cut those strings.
YOUR M, YOUR girls need to come first. You want to feel sorry for the OW -- pray for her to get a new job.
You need to get your old H back. Once this harlot leaves, things will get easier.
We are rooting for ya.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
