I had to laugh at Puppies rant. I had a huge project I was working on to improve our families life. It consumed me for 6 months. As soon as I finished and tried to restart life with my W, she started backing away, and I later found out that's when her EA started.
And exactly like Still Waters, my W told me that it was my fault because I had "neglected" her during that time.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.