Shine like the star you are!

[sage]

HI Sage,

I was going to clarify my comment about your Mom, but if you read the last two points on your last post you'll know exactly what I was getting at!!!

Shiny

Yah...no clarification necessary, Shiny.

I just listened to "The Dance of Anger" (a reread for me) and it reinforced that I likely need to do SOMETHING about my r. with my mom. Right now we're in "standoff" mode at my initiation...partly because (and I told her this) I just don't feel good about seeing her, speaking with her, etc...and partly because I just cannot deal with the fact that she is involved with a married man right now.

That being said...I know that the standoff isn't healthy for me. I just really don't know how to address it right now.

Sage