I know they were hard questions ;\) Thanks for your answers.

So does your H judge success by monetary terms then?

I think the old don't mess with my family or my money is quite a typical male stance; it's a shame when they don't take their own advice.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength