she said that she's not able to feel in love with anyone right now.
As Puppy would say, this is SCRIPT.
People engaged in EAs and/or PAs always say this, and what they really mean is "I can't feel love for two people, and right now I'm trying to determine if I love this other guy."
Have you read Not Just Friends yet? You should, it'll let you know what you're dealing with when it comes to an EA.
Me: 33 WAW/MLC: 33 M: 4+, T: 10+ Separated: Nov 08 A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended) A#2: Feb 09 - ? 1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes 2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t 3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3