Hi Pearl, Whoa! You have certainly had a crazy few days! Good for you for taking your time to think this over. I've found that approach to be SO valuable. I think it's OK not to respond if you don't want to. I find that writing is also easier for me sometimes as it allows me to better control my emotions than face to face interactions -especially when I'm feeling angry or frustrated!
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Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09